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An Open Letter to Those That Struggle
Hey there, I don't know exactly what brought you here. I don't know what your life looks like, and I don't know how long you've been carrying this pain. But if you are reading this while wondering whether you can keep going, I want to start here: You deserve support before you reach your breaking point. You do not have to wait until you have a plan. You do not have to wait until things become unbearable or for the day you have enough energy to “just do it.” You do not have t

Grace Putz
Sep 95 min read
Remembering Them: Meaningful Ways to Memorialize a Loved One Lost to Suicide
Grief after suicide is complicated and seemingly endless. You feel the immense sadness, the fiery anger, the terrifying bleakness, the overpowering guilt, and the daunting hopelessness. Some days feel lighter and you can breathe without the weight on your chest, other days feel devastatingly heavy. There is no “good” or “right” way to experience it. It’s just there, walking alongside you always. You replay conversations and wonder what you could have missed. You wish you ha

Grace Putz
Sep 95 min read
Talking About Suicide Doesn't Cause Suicide: A Note on Getting Better at Having These Hard Conversations
September is Suicide Prevention Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness, sharing resources, remembering those we have lost, and hopefully making conversations about mental health a little less intimidating. Perhaps one of the most important misconceptions we need to address is this: Talking about suicide does not put the idea into someone's head. As a therapist, I have heard this fear many times, even from other therapists who have not been as well-versed in talking ab

Grace Putz
Sep 94 min read


Recommending Therapy Without Offending Your Patient: A Guide for Healthcare Providers
As a physical therapist, physician, nurse practitioner, chiropractor, or other healthcare provider, you may occasionally notice something that extends beyond your scope of practice. Maybe a patient is experiencing chronic pain that seems intertwined with significant stress or anxiety. Maybe they become visibly overwhelmed discussing their symptoms. Perhaps you notice patterns of avoidance, grief, trauma responses, body image concerns, relationship stress, or emotional distres

Grace Putz
Aug 315 min read


The Male Loneliness Epidemic: Why Men's Mental Health Affects All of Us
The male loneliness epidemic isn't just a men's issue. Learn why men's mental health affects families, relationships, and communities—and how we can respond with both accountability and compassion.

Grace Putz
Aug 66 min read


Parenting Teens: The Complexities of Raising Children with Inherent Trust and Respect vs. Making Them Earn It
If you've ever found yourself saying, "My teen needs to earn my respect," you're certainly not alone. It's one of the most common parenting phrases I hear as a teen and tween therapist. Usually, it's said after a lie, sneaking out, disrespectful language, breaking curfew, or another behavior that leaves parents feeling hurt, frustrated, and unsure of what to do next. But I want to offer a different perspective - I don't actually think respect or trust should be earned. That’s

Grace Putz
Jul 243 min read


Difficult Mother Daughter Relationship: Why Sweeping Things Under the Rug Is Hurting Your Relationship
Repair a difficult mother-daughter relationship by addressing conflict instead of avoiding it. Learn how acknowledging mistakes can rebuild trust and connection.

Grace Putz
Jul 144 min read


My Teen Is Struggling: A Teen Therapist Explains Why Structure and Consequences Matter
My teen is struggling—what should I do? Discover why teenagers need structure, boundaries, and consequences to thrive from a teen therapist in Baltimore and Iowa.

Grace Putz
Jul 144 min read


Why Daughters Need Their Moms to Acknowledge Mistakes: Healing Mother Daughter Conflict Through Repair
Struggling with mother-daughter fights/conflict or guilt setting boundaries with mom? Learn why acknowledging mistakes strengthens relationships and builds emotional integrity. Therapy for mother-daughter conflict in Baltimore can help families heal.

Grace Putz
Jun 224 min read


Cancel Culture Isn't Trauma-Informed: A Trauma Therapist's Perspective on Accountability, Healing, and Human Connection
Cancel culture may increase anxiety, shame, and disconnection. Learn why a trauma-informed approach prioritizes accountability, repair, and healing. Trauma therapy in Baltimore.

Grace Putz
Jun 35 min read


Is the Next Generation of Kids Doomed? Open Letter to Stressed Millennial Parents from a Baltimore Teen Therapist
Looking for therapy for teens in Baltimore? Learn why today's generation is more resilient than you think and how therapy can support your child.

Grace Putz
Jun 34 min read


Is my childhood trauma really affecting me as an adult?
This article outlines how childhood trauma can affect you in adulthood, signs to look out for and when to seek therapy from a therapist in Balitmore, MD.

Grace Putz
Jun 24 min read


10 Questions for Mothers and Daughters to Ask Each Other as a Way of Reconnecting
This article has 10 questions for mothers and daughters to ask themselves to build a deeper bond.

Grace Putz
May 204 min read


Where Can I Build Community in Anne Arundel County?
Ideas for things to do and ways to meet new people and build community in Anne Arundel County

Grace Putz
May 203 min read


Where Can I Build Community in Baltimore County?
Ideas for things to do and ways to meet new people and build community in Baltimore County

Grace Putz
May 202 min read


Is Anger Truly a Secondary Emotion?
This article explores emotional expression, intellectualizing, and the idea that anger is a secondary emotion.

Grace Putz
May 128 min read


Where Can I Build Community in Baltimore City?
Ideas for things to do and ways to meet new people and build community in Baltimore City

Grace Putz
Apr 272 min read


How Can We Be Better Villagers? Community-building from a relational trauma therapist
Everyone wants a village these days but many don’t want to be a villager or don’t know how. This article will discuss small ways you improve your mental health by building community and finding a sense of belonging from a relational trauma therapist.

Grace Putz
Apr 277 min read


Why Is My Relationship With My Mom So Hard? Signs of a Strained Mother-Daughter Relationship & Tools for Improvement
Do you always feel angry at your mother? Does it feel like she says things to piss you off for no reason? Does it feel like this is the only relationship where you harbor so much frustration and such little patience? Many daughters feel this way about their mothers. Women for years have been each other’s safe spaces which also makes us susceptible to being each other’s punching bags. This dynamic is especially common with mothers and daughters. Research has shown that betwee

Grace Putz
Mar 2412 min read


Experiencing Dread about the World?
Utilizing Joy as Defiance is More Important Now Than Ever Many people in the world are having a really difficult time right now both individually and systemically. We are experiencing the brink of war, poor leadership, censorship, inflation, and division in a way that many Americans have not experienced ever before in their lifetimes. The world feels simultaneously bleak and on fire. People feel exhausted, burnt out, frustrated, lost, restless, and even hopeless. This makes p

Grace Putz
Mar 198 min read
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